insurance changes headed my way

I saw today on Yahoo that the administration's health care reform will be in part funded by a tax on family health insurance benefits that are greater tha $23,000 in premium cost annually. Who gets to decide the size of a family? Are they really going to penalize me because I am have ten kids that need to see the doctor? I have scratched and clawed for 20 years to get these benefits, now they are going to cost me extra.

What happened to personal responsibility and being a man and taking care of your family on your own.